Gay and Katie Hendricks say
Love yourself, love all the parts that are difficult to love especially our internal saboteur.
Define what it is you want, the yes and no, the deal breakers in a relationships (things you would not put up with like drugs, addictions, meaness, violence, infidelity).
Release the past, send it love. That was THEN and this is NOW. Love happens NOW:
Think about love as an adventure and an experiment, be in awe of it.
Stretch yourself to learn something new because that gets creativity going and opens up passion.
From the start of a relationship make sure you are authenthic and completely honest and you will attract the same back. It creates aliveness and a flow of creativity.
Look and love the damaged picker, that part of you that keeps choosing the wrong person for yourself. Send it love. Love the unlovable parts of yourself.Create yourself as a lovable person.
Be in a relationship with someone who is blown away by you and you feel the same way back.
Tell yourself ” I choose ease in my loving relationship”.
Create a love vibration inside yourself, realise love is already happening inside yourself and then expand that out into the world.