Today I was asked to lend my Nintendo Wii to a group of children. I was not comfortable with the idea so I said no. The person who asked me knew me well enough and appreciated me enough to know that my no did not come from a place of selfishness, lack of trust or negativity but from a place of intuition and honouring myself. It was a beautiful thing to be able to say no and honour my feelings and also for that no to be heard and understood in the context in which it was given. Not only did I honour myself but my friend also honoured me by the way in which this no was respected.