I had a client who came for Theta healing today. After much discussion and testing we had a conversation about who is in charge of our lives. If we are healed by God or the Creator does that mean that he/she/it is in charge? How do we know that healing ‘has worked’? How does free will related to relinquishing control to God/Creator? Sometimes we live under the illusion that we are in charge and that is an important aspect of our lives. Feeling that we are in charge can makes us feel more relaxed and able to develop our potential. On the other hand if we worry and are anxious on a regular basis because we do not feel in control then we have a problem. When we accept healing we are letting go of the need to control and allowing God/Creator to heal us however we do have free will and can make our own decisions on an everyday basis. The way I know healing is helping me is because I can observe a change in my own reactions and ways of thinking and also have had feedback from friends and family.