Sometimes we do not enjoy what we have, we have expectations about what our family ought to ‘give’ us, ‘provide’ for us and we forget to be grateful for just having a family who loves us in the best way they can. This trip back home I have made a conscious decision to focus on being and feeling grateful and so far I have found so many things to be grateful about every single day! So instead of focusing on the lack of what I feel I need from them, I am focusing on what they give me willingly and it has been like a Pandora’s box. Me and the children get nice clean rooms, lovely beds, lovely food, lots of love, worry about us and the whole family rally around us to make us feel welcome. All I can say is a very warm thank you.